and many of the detours are seductive.
David Foster Wallace, Infinite Jest
Celebrating Disquiet
And they all seem beautiful to me.
Siena, May 25 2017
My grandparents got married in September 1948. This was their wedding cake figurine.
References

Self Reflecting as a fortuneteller (according to my husband) on the tram in Sarajevo
For I do not exist: there exist but the thousands of mirrors that reflect me. With every acquaintance I make, the population of phantoms resembling me increases. Somewhere they live, somewhere they multiply. I alone do not exist. Vladimir Nabokov, The Eye
I feel my fate in what I cannot fear.
I learn by going where I have to go.
References
The Waking By Theodore Roethke

I wonder if the snow loves the trees and fields, that it kisses them so gently? And then it covers them up snug, you know, with a white quilt; and perhaps it says, “Go to sleep, darlings, till the summer comes again.”
Lewis Carroll
Ilidža, Sarajevo (this morning)
It took me over a year to realize that “Death”was posing for me.
Perhaps home is not a place but simply an irrevocable condition.
James Baldwin
Coffee at the greenhouse around the corner